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		<title>Episode 5- I&#8217;m Getting a Divorce, What Now?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[This Episode of &#8220;Use the Law&#8221;, Las Vegas Nevada attorney David Rahm discusses the the first legal issues you should consider when getting divorced in Nevada. Podcast Transcript: &#8220;I am thinking about getting a divorce, what should I do?&#8221; There are a lot of things to consider when you have a divorce. You have been [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" style="margin: 6px;" src="http://streamcities.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/usethelaw.png" alt="Use the Law Podcast with David Rahm" width="162" height="162" /> This Episode of &#8220;Use the Law&#8221;, <a href="http://www.drlawlv.com" target="blank">Las Vegas Nevada attorney David Rahm</a> discusses the the first legal issues you should consider when getting divorced in Nevada.</p>
<p><strong>Podcast Transcript:</strong></p>
<p>&#8220;I am thinking about getting a divorce, what should I do?&#8221;  There are a lot of things to consider when you have a divorce.  You have been married with somebody for a number of years.  Maybe you own a home.  Maybe you have  children.  You certainly have acquired vehicles.  You certainly have acquired furniture.  You may have play toys like motorhomes and ATVs and boats and things like that.  You each may have a retirement account.  There may be children from previous relationships.  So you have to think about &#8220;what steps do I need to take to cleanly and effectively end this marriage if that is what I want to do; or if that is what my spouse wants to do.&#8221;</p>
<p><em>Nevada is a &#8220;No Fault State&#8221;</em> Nevada basically is a no fault divorce state.  Back in the 1940s and 1950s it wasn&#8217;t easy to get a divorce in the United States.  You had to prove fault.  You had to prove there was a reason why you were entitled to a divorce.
<li> &#8220;I caught my spouse in adultery!&#8221; &#8220;My spouse is an alcoholic!&#8221;   &#8220;My spouse is a drug addict!&#8221;  &#8220;My spouse has a gambling problem!&#8221;</li>
<p>  Those would be some of the basis you could go in and get a divorce in the old days.
  </p>
<p>Now a days, if one party wants to get divorced, you are getting divorced; that&#8217;s all there is to it!</em>  It&#8217;s a no fault divorce, which means if one party wants to get divorced, you are getting divorced!   </p>
<p><em><strong>So what should I do if I want to get divorced, or I find out my spouse is getting ready to divorce me?</strong></em></p>
<p>The first thing you should do is consult with an attorney who practices in the area of <a href="http://www.drlawlv.com/legal-services/family-law/">family law</a>.  As stated before, there is a lot of issues to consider.  Not only assets, income, spousal support, child support, child custody, division of assets, and ongoing liabilities.  People that go into court and try and represent themselves have no idea that they could be putting themselves inline for financial obligation to payoff credit cards, to pay child support, to pay other debts, to pay spousal support for years and years and years that they may not have found themselves liable for had the retained competent council to assist them through the process.
<p><b><em>So if you are thinking about getting a divorce, you need to have a <a href="http://www.drlawlv.com/contact/new-client-intake-form/">free consultation with a competent divorce and family law attorney</a>.</b>  That attorney will sit down with you and find out the answer to all these questions about the extent of your assets and obligations, the health of the parties involved, and the children.  Once that&#8217;s all been determined, that attorney can sit down with you and tell you (under the current state of the law) what the court is likely to do if you go to a contested divorce. </p>
<p>If you go to a contested divorce, a judge is going to decide how to divide you assets (your house, your cars, your other assets), how to divide your debts, whose going to get custody of your children, and who is going to pay (if anyone is going to) child support and spousal support.  If you find that you can negotiate with your partner (with your spouse) and you can do an uncontested divorce; that&#8217;s much cheaper!  It&#8217;s also much smarter!</p>
<p>You spent years accumulating these assets, having these children and raising them together.  Now you want to get a divorce and move on. Fine!  If you can sit down with the assistance of an attorney and do an uncontested divorce, then what you will find out is that you will save a lot of money on attorney&#8217;s fees.  You will spend a lot of time, that you otherwise would spend in court, that you now don&#8217;t have to do. You will also find out that you save a tremendous amount of personal upset, heartburn, anger, fear, and frustration.  All the things that your going to suffer as you go through this divorce into a process that you are not that familiar with.  It can be very scary and daunting at some time!  If you can do an uncontested divorce, that means that you and your spouse are going to decide how to divide your assets, who is going to have custody of your children, how much child support your going to pay, what you are going to do with your retirement accounts.   After all, shouldn&#8217;t you decide how to divide your assets with your spouse, instead of having some stranger (some third party) who you are probably going to be in front of for six to ten hours in your life; and then you are going to leave for them to decide all those things that we talked about.  <em>It is fool-hearty to do a contested divorce if there is a chance of doing an uncontested divorce! </em>  However, in some cases, the parties have so much anger, or there is such a disparity between the income and assets of one party versus the other party, that you end up having to do a contested divorce.  </p>
<p> In that case I strongly recommend that you contact and get a free consultation from an experienced Nevada family law attorney who will explain all the things we just talked about, determine your particular circumstances, and assist you through the process.</p>
<p><strong>If you are getting, or thinking about getting a divorce- Call David Rahm</strong> for a <a href="http://drlawlv.com/contact/loan-modification-form/">FREE DIVORCE CONSULTATION</a> at 702-369-4663</p>

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